I’ve been sharing some favored posts from the archives as I invest some additional time with my family as well as our new little individual. This Q&An initially appeared in November 2011. (That explains the sweater!) I ‘d love to hear your brand-new questions! Keep sending out those to me at questions@notjustcute.com!
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So to evaluate:
- Verify their sensations without panicing or forecasting your very own feelings.
- Be a “Charismatic Grownup”, supplying that arm around the shoulder or the comfortable lap to rest on. Do not make them stand out or feel like a project, however be aware of them and also try to link daily.
- Offer consistency and also selection whenever possible/reasonable to give a feeling of security as well as control.
- Offer flexible innovative tasks (art, writing, significant play) to permit them to resolve big feelings if and when they choose to.
Resources to take into consideration:
Resiliency/Charismatic Adult– Dr. Sam Goldstein Aiding Your Youngster Via
a Divorce Children Wellness 14 Books to Assist Ease Kid With Transitions Journaling Big Feelings
What sources or experiences could you add? Related